Mera Pyar - Shahrukh Khan
Don’t be misled by the title… I am not talking about myself, I just adore Shahrukh as a very talented actor… but there so many of our feminine lassies who just dream about him with their eyes closed as well as open….!! From their childhood, they have been having fantasies of marrying SRK but its only in their adolescence, they realize that the love of their life has already been engaged in marital vows long long back. But still, that feeling of insane love stretches out and never dies… They seldom realize the fact that in real life, there are ‘No’ shahrukhs… and the kind of romance and personality they see on the silver screen, should be restricted to within those 3 hrs of the movie. But still, they carry that feeling in their gleamy eyes, thinking… ‘Wish Shahrukh was mine!’
This has had some serious consequences as well… Girls get distracted from their normal way of life and get carried into an entirely different world which is pure fantasy and has no correlation with this existing world… Some cases have been so frantic, that such people have been misled into wrong-doings just to get a close-up glimpse of their love God!
Some have been so deep madly in love with him, that they try to find that kind of image in their boy-friends & husbands… without realizing that what they see on the screen is not a real person but only a shadowy image of what should be perceived… They seldom realize that what they have is much better than what they think…
No doubt this is the very idea which prompted Hrishikesh Mukherjee to direct the movie ‘Guddi’ (with Jaya Bacchan, Dharmendra and Utpal Dutt). The movie highlights a girl’s (Jaya Bacchan’s) infatuation towards a celebrity (Dharmendra) and fails to realize that her world couldn’t be completed by an infatuation but by the reality (her fiancé)
But aren’t men a part of a similar infatuation too…. As a matter of fact, we are hit by a very similar infatuation!! Guys and gals dream of shahrukh and bipasha in their mates and they are always submerged in this dreamy world, without opening their eyes for once and realizing that the people who care for them, mean much more than this fantasy…..
Unless one realizes this fact, the words….. ‘pure’, ‘strong’ and ‘meaningful relationship’ are just myth and fantasy!!
This has had some serious consequences as well… Girls get distracted from their normal way of life and get carried into an entirely different world which is pure fantasy and has no correlation with this existing world… Some cases have been so frantic, that such people have been misled into wrong-doings just to get a close-up glimpse of their love God!
Some have been so deep madly in love with him, that they try to find that kind of image in their boy-friends & husbands… without realizing that what they see on the screen is not a real person but only a shadowy image of what should be perceived… They seldom realize that what they have is much better than what they think…
No doubt this is the very idea which prompted Hrishikesh Mukherjee to direct the movie ‘Guddi’ (with Jaya Bacchan, Dharmendra and Utpal Dutt). The movie highlights a girl’s (Jaya Bacchan’s) infatuation towards a celebrity (Dharmendra) and fails to realize that her world couldn’t be completed by an infatuation but by the reality (her fiancé)
But aren’t men a part of a similar infatuation too…. As a matter of fact, we are hit by a very similar infatuation!! Guys and gals dream of shahrukh and bipasha in their mates and they are always submerged in this dreamy world, without opening their eyes for once and realizing that the people who care for them, mean much more than this fantasy…..
Unless one realizes this fact, the words….. ‘pure’, ‘strong’ and ‘meaningful relationship’ are just myth and fantasy!!
posted by Gaurav | Sunday, March 26, 2006
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